1. Be a value finder and not a fault finder. Look for what your partner, family members or friends, are doing right, and tell them you appreciate them for it. Your mental health and your immune system will thank you for it!! “That’s kind of you hanging out the washing-thank you”. “I love the way
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The Three Things You Can Do to be a Winner and the Three Things that you can Stop Doing to Prevent getting poor results in whatever you do
I’m typing this now, in the hope that what follows can save you time, just as it did for me. You can cut to the chase and enjoy the results you want. And if you are in a relationship, that it will start you on the road to getting the love you want and to
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What is Going on Between your Ears that Stops you from Getting the Love, Life, Peace of Mind, and Happiness you Want?
When things are not working in a relationship, there are many skill sets, modalities and many tools that you can learn to use, so you get better results. Skill sets are valuable. You can learn them. You can learn to communicate better. You can learn to make it safe for each other to speak and
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The Top 3 Killers in relationships and how you can Knock Them Dead
Most relationships don’t work. The divorce rate is between 40 and 50%, but the actual success rate in a relationship is much lower than that. People can live together for forty years but haven’t made love for thirty years and they say, “Oh well we’re still together”, but that’s not exactly, necessarily anyway a successful
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The Second of the Top Three Killers of Relationships and How to Knock them Dead
Hello, I’m Donatus Michalka. I’m a psychologist, a relationship counsellor and I’d like to talk to you about the second killer, Criticism, and how to knock it dead. When we criticize, we hurt. When we criticize, we get the other person to push back and to hurt us back. What happens in a relationship when
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The Three Biggest Killers of Relationships and How to Knock them Dead: The Third Killer
The Third Killer of relationships is putting other people/things before your partner. Doing that can leave the relationship starved of the love it wants. To create the relationship of your dreams, your third task is to identify your exits and to close them. Some say that most relationships don’t work. That is because they are
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10 Last Minute Miraculous and Free Gift Ideas for Everyone
If you are looking for what to give for this Christmas and holiday season, here are some ideas that everyone will appreciate and cherish…and they have the bonus of being a boomerang gift back to you. Feel free to cut, paste, and personalize into messages to the people in your life, including those you may
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A Minute a Day – Nourish your Relationship
Begin making every day be like the first days you were in love. One of the biggest complaints we hear is, “there’s no time to… go out on a date… have deep belly laughs together…sit down and talk together…” But there is a lot you can do in just 6o seconds a day. In one
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Forgiveness: The Healing Balm, The Key to Happiness
What could you want that forgiveness cannot give? Do you want peace? Forgiveness offers it. Do you want happiness, a quiet mind, a certainty of purpose and a sense of worth and beauty that transcends the world? Do you want care and safety and the warmth of sure protection always? Do you want a quietness
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Take your Relationship for a Tune-Up
We will take our cars for a tune-up because we know it needs it to run smoothly. The same is true for our relationship. Falling in love is amazing! The excitement of meeting someone new brings out the best in all of us; the journey ahead feels like an open road full of possibility …
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